Thursday, February 5, 2009

I'm tired...

...of feeling like I constantly disappoint. I bust my ass all day long. I cook and I do laundry and I clean and I take care of the kids and pets 99.9% of the time. And I work a full-time, professional job. So, dear husband, if you cannot pull up your big boy boxers and stop your passive-aggressive bullshit, then don't let the screen door hit you in the ass on your way out.

2 comments:

Rachel said...

What I have done when I start feeling like this, is to stop doing whatever it is that you do. For example, your husband's laundry. That may seem a little passive agressive on YOUR part, but he may get the point when he has no clean clothes to wear, and may actually surprise you by doing a load of laundry himself.

Marinka said...

A friend of mine had the perfect response to this. When her husband criticized how she did something, she said, "Why don't you make a list of everything I've done wrong and then make a list of everything you've done." Worked really well.