Thursday, March 26, 2009

I'm Scared

My head hurts, my neck is tied up in knots, and I’m incapable of smiling.  Our first marriage counseling appointment is tonight, and I’m scared stiff.  I know it’s not magic, and it would take time, but I also know that if this doesn’t work, it’s over.

8 comments:

Roshni Mitra Chintalapati said...

hey! Don't be so hard on yourself!

WackyGrandma said...

Hang in there. My husband and I attended three or four sessions about 4 yrs into our marriage. He was the one that wanted to go in the first place and then didn't like that the counselor sided more with me, hehe. Anyway, we've been married almost 12 yrs. now and there are times that I wish we would have ended way back then and other times I don't know what I would do without him.

CoftheU said...

Only you know when its over. Glean what you can from the session, accept suggestions and try your hardest but your heart knows what it knows.

Kari said...

It's going to be ok. Either way, it's going to be ok.

country mouse said...

Ditto what Kari said . . . and what everybody else said : )

Hubby, Daughter and I went to a few sessions of therapy a few years ago. Helped out so very, very much!

Best of luck!

cw2smom said...

Wishing you success in this undertaking. It's hard, but it's so worth it to get an outsider's opinion and recommendations for change! Blessings...Lisa

Rachel said...

Wow. I know just how you're feeling. Truly. My husband and are 4 sessions into counseling ourselves. It's definitely a process. No magic yet. Feel free to email me and good luck.

Mary said...

I remember that terror very clearly. It makes my stomach hurt a little just to think of it. But the fact that you are both willing to face that terror and go to counselling is a good sign.

Good luck!