Wednesday, May 20, 2009

POLL

If I had it to do all over, I would never get married.  Would you?

25 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hate me all you want but I totally would. It's been 12 years and I'm still mad about him. But I'll admit I got lucky. If I'd married my college fiancee? It would've gotten ugly REALLY quick.

Anonymous said...

nope.

Pudge450 said...

Absolutely!

TeacherMommy said...

Um...let me get back to you on that one.

Anonymous said...

Hell no

Belle said...

Is this a trick question?

Anonymous said...

I'm in the ABSOLUTELY YES club. Six years and 2 kids in and we're still having way more good days than bad ones.

Aludra said...

Yep, 4.5 years and still honey-mooning.

Anonymous said...

Not even if hell freezes over. Twice.

SheBloggs said...

I would.. 2 years married, baby on the way. He isn't the greatest, but I make him the greatest to me.. We just make it work.. love will do that for eachother.

Anonymous said...

I am divorced and soon to be on husband #2 --hell yes i would do it again -- love is a great thing if you work hard at it (you might have just married the wrong person the frist time like me -- we all make mistakes)

Anonymous said...

Nope! Never. Done it twice now. I've learned my lesson. All I've got is someone to help me spend my money and cause me drama.

Anonymous said...

N.O.

reddaisies said...

Good GOD!!! I really like to see the glass as half full. I really do. But marry again? SHIT NO!! It was awful the first time and really hard to get out of. I am blessed for the two children that were born from that disaster and for the lessons learned, but really, would you eat a shit pie twice?

Anonymous said...

Oh yes. Just not necessarily to the same man.

Manic Mommy said...

Yes. Nearly nine years married and two kids. And we still like each other.

Issas Crazy World said...

Yes. My husband and kids are the thing I have done right in this world. The things that I am most proud of. Boring maybe, but I love it.

10 years of marriage, three kids.

Anonymous said...

oh hell no!

Anonymous said...

Hell to the NO FUCKING WAY!

Anonymous said...

Nope. And I'm on my second. So maybe I'm the idiot.

Tales of the endless tether said...

If I could still have my sons, but not have had the husband...

God, no, I would NOT have married him if I'd have known what I know now.

2 Brits, 2 Yanks, 2 Dogs said...

Yep Absolutely! 15 years together and 10 years married. Still love him like deeply, I look forward to seeing him every day! He truly is my best friend.

Tammigirl said...

yes!

Anonymous said...

9 years married, 16 years together, and people still gag at how 'cute' we are together, with the holding hands, finishing each other's sentences, etc. Put me in the 'Hell yes!' category! If you find the right one, it's totally worth it.

SolitaryAngel said...

If I had the choice to do it all over again? Yes--even though it ended in divorce, I did get my son out of the deal and I also discovered this nugget of wisdom:

It takes being incarcerated to truly appreciate one's freedom.

That said, I'm really glad there are people out there who are happily married--I wish it could have been me.