Saturday, April 17, 2010

You really piss me off...

For the past year we have had a great time together. We had date nights, you liked the same thing i was into, we cared about each other, and the sex was fantastic! So help me understand why you have to be such a dumbass? I have loved you more than anyone in my life; and you pissed it all away! I haven't heard from you in just shy of 2 weeks; all over a fight and pride. Well I am sorry, but you are almost thirty, you need to grow up... take the nipple out of your mouth, and become a man. You live at home, you work for your parents, and you can't even drive a car! What do you want me to say? Especially when you start the fight with me. All b/c you won't drive, and I get annoyed with it. Hello?! I am your girlfriend... not your mom!
I love you; but I don't want a guy with a petter-pan complex in the long run. Soulmate or no. You want to live in some kind of dream world and hide from the real one. I work hard, I am independent, and ambitious, and you have the nerve to say it's a bad thing? That your looser way of life is better b/c you have no "wants" in life? WTF?! I am sorry to inconvience you with with my plans for my life, at least i have some. Not all of us want to do "nothing" in life.
So now we are not talking; both of us have too much pride I guess. I am not going to chase you. I am not going to beg. I am done trying. The thing that really pisses me off is I can't get you off my mind. I really have it bad for you, and I don't even now why. So if you can dismiss me after all of the wonderful things we have had together, then Fuck You doll.

8 comments:

phd in yogurtry said...

30 yr old content to live with and work for parents AND no license? the marriage potential here is a scary prospect.

MarathonMom said...

Yeah, it's hard being successful and independent at 30 when his mommy is still - well I won't go there. But you need to take your independent BA self on a solo "trip of a lifetime". Europe, Mexico, Vancouver or somewhere across the country. STAT. Normally I would not condone this financially, but put it all on a CC if you don't have quite all of it in the bank. You deserve it and it sounds like you can very well pay it off and it will give you yet another reason to tell him you are too busy for his sorry self. Bon Voyage!!

jackie said...

Run. Run fast and run furious. You may not see it right now, but this is such a good thing.

Karen W said...

Re-read your email. 30 yo, lives at home, works for mommy and daddy, AND doesn't drive? Plus has absolutely NO goals in life?

How much worse can it get?

Kim said...

Wow, girl! I think you should consider this a blessing (not quite in disguise though)...my grandma always told me that the reason breakups are painful in the first place are simply to teach us not to go there again. Go on that vacay, drink, dance and have some FUN! Wish I could join you.... ;-)

Whitney said...

Wow! We were no longer allowed in our parents home without paying rent after graduating high school!

Run run run!!

Anonymous said...

Trust me, if you marry that, you will be dealing with a man who expects someone else to take care of him your WHOLE LIFE. That's why he is dating you - because you are strong and independant and basically a substitute mommy for him to drive him around, earn your own money, pay the bills and do everything he doesn't have to do.

I'm at 10 years and counting... wish I had known!!!

Anonymous said...

What advice would you give someone if they came to you and told you their boyfriend was living at home, dependent on mommy and had no motivation or ambition? You'd probably tell them to run fast in the opposite direction! Put on your running shoes girlfriend, turn around and RUN! (follow your own advice) Best of luck!