Sunday, July 25, 2010

Bad Friend!

The Dog that I have owned for 10 years just recently passed away and after getting over the initial shock of the matter I turn to my best friend who knew how much my dog meant to me and is a fellow dog lover, so I thought out of anyone she would understand but boy was I wrong. So I IM her at first trying to make casual conversation asking how her weekend had been. After she went on and on about how spectacular her weekend was the conversation ends without her asking me how I had been. After five minutes she begins talking all about her self again (very typical) I had to interrupt her mid sentence to say my dog died her response is....."Are you kidding" followed by the cliché I'm sorry call me if you need anything. So three days go bye and I have not heard a word from her, even though I was online for an hour while she was she could not be bothered to IM me ( I always have to IM little princess first) Finally on the third day she text me to cancel plans for tomorrow. Even though I was really upset with her we starting talking again and made plans for the upcoming weekend which she cancelled to go to the city, with her other friends that I am also friends with, to go to a museum she knew I would be interested in. She could have invited me but she chose not to, why? I've known her for a while and it doesn't take a while for me to figure out that she wanted to look the best out of everyone and apparently I did not fit in that equation. She is one of those girls who is self conscious when she needs a little ego boost, but honestly she is the most cocky person I have every met. And I really hope she does not try to talk to me to tell me how fabulous her weekend is because I will tell her how disgusting she truly is and how self centered she is because apparently "she does give a shit about people" Yeah right you're so stupid.

5 comments:

Joie said...

You know what? I care that your dog passed. It's awful and makes your heart feel cold and empty.

Some friends, no matter how great we think they are, aren't. When we really need them, they are the farthest away one could possibly be.

I am thinking of you and am SO sorry...

Anonymous said...

Wow. Did your dog die of secondhand neediness? It's a killer.

Anonymous said...

Are you 12? Can you not call her? Just a thought...

Anonymous said...

I care too and am so very sorry that your dog passed away. Mine is 12 and I know her time is coming and it breaks my heart every day so I know how you feel for I will be in your shoes soon. Your "friend" is not a friend and I am glad that you realize that.

Tales of the endless tether said...

I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost 2 beloved pets in February, so I understand your sorrow {{{hugs}}}

Maybe your friend thought she was taking your mind off the subject?